Field Report

(New Year Edition 2024)

Happy New Year babe ❤️ 一起跨進新一年!

Playlist for Jan

  1. CONCERT YY – 《黃偉文作品展》
    (So so so many iconic singers sang their classic songs in beautiful garment)
  2. 黃妍 x 余香凝 – 《日光漂白》
  3. Jeffrey Ngai -《失約巴黎》
  4. SIN – 《你今天過得怎樣》
  5. Jabin Law – Inside Your Room
  6. Winter Bagels – Folk you very much
  7. Kiri T – Eggnorant Sandwich
  8. 李克勤 -《飛花》
  9. 岑寧兒 -《勿念》

Our Play Field

婆婆離開了呢個世界,沒回到香港送別,

放一束婆婆生前最愛的百合,喝一杯甜甜的呠酒。

多謝你喺呢段時間陪住我。

 跨年這幾天你住在我屋企,一齊做嘢、聽廣東歌、煮嘢食、看煙花、睇戲 (馬來西亞的反烏托邦電影Pendatang)~ 幸福又安穩的日常~

謝謝你借了Canon相機給我!未來有機會練習,培養攝影興趣是我今年想做的目標。

又一套最新的香港戲,特別謝謝你陪我一起看。這幾年的香港電影都是大多都是社會關懷,揭露繁華下被忽略的千瘡百孔。

很合我這位小左膠的口味~

可不是必然的,例如讀攝影藝術又喜歡的朋友D就覺得這類電影敘事太單簿欠深意,比較 prefer 外國嚴謹的電影作品。

好美麗的吊飾,取車時遠遠就能看見一對甜蜜的和平鴿在 Dolphin 車頭~

駕著車,也有你的祝福守護住。

這個月可以入到LSE的網入面看到Lecture和 complete lists of Readings,
好開心,一份的學費讓我也可以學習。

今個月忙於寫論文的時間,也抽空發掘了一些Neighbourhood附近的得意地方,如在活化酒店裡的 Dorothy & Marshall 和 (因第一次walk-in不了而發現的)Branded Bromley~

也去了 Soho 試了下希臘菜~ 門外看見有人醉倒用剛學到的急救理論察了一下他的情況,應無大礙就繼續約會了。
最近我的指定動作也是點菜再加杯house wine,微醺吃吃聊聊。

往唐人街逛了下,看看北京同仁堂又有中式餅店。不足料還有貴~ 哎啊,不過是家鄉的味道,也心甘命抵硬食。

KriS and Max’s Rules for Love.

  • 長壽計劃: 送奶與 bed-time story,還有飲水和食菜先
    我們提早到11點睡覺,送奶的時間也相對撥早到10點多,感覺良好!
  • Our Notion sync!
    晚上我們有千言萬語,冇得見面的時候,更加雞啄唔斷。你真係好叻啊發明咗呢個新的notion sync calender,可以有空就一路 update 對方,仲可以俾我諗定 bed-time story。
  • xxx: Capture intimate moments to charge
    今個月實在特別的忙碌,我的工作一番工就沒時停,你也努力追趕論文。
    出城看戲那日因為誤會了你不想我車你回去的意思,以為你想早點結束約會回去工作,實質是不解溫柔你是真的體諒我工作辛苦。我還大煞風景一直催你回家。
    明白了辛苦時更要把握時間親密互相support下,親密與工作不是彼此的對立;而是互相效力的助力。
  • Open about my feelings and difficulties, and blockages I encounter, overcome together
    和另一半也算是個joint project!這個月明白了兩個人同步的溝通真的很重要。所遇到寫作遇到時間的限制和選材的迷失,或者對家人的想法的擔心,如可以一直及時update你,就可以as a partner咁一齊解決啲障礙,deliver together!
  • Assertive地先抛出計劃,再商量調整
  • Boundary with others
  • Carrot and stick
  • Reading buddy
  • Right Mood, Playlist, Aura, Clear Destination, Breaks and Pro-pilot and insurance
  • Surprises: 只需confirm對方時間,唔透露係做咩
  • Un-lockable 功能表與券券
  • 你發辦煮飯,我這小助手全力支援
  • 同父母互通下伴侶的事
  • 毛衣交換計劃
  • 留意靚日落與美景,隨時起機
  • 30th: Celebrate Our Lovely Relationship

Our relationship

Came across 人類學家 Helen Fisher 的短片
Romantic love is one of the most addictive substances in the world:
a perfectly wonderful addiction when it’s going well, and a perfectly horrible addiction when it’s going poorly.

 Love is deeply embedded in the brain. 

Our challenge is to understand each other.

努力讓我們成為彼此上佳的癮。

Unlockable functions

Kris仔憑️解鎖 A-Z(更新版清單1.8)

‍  An anthropological lens blended with a political mind and social work heart

 Book club of 2 people~ Read a book tgt and discuss regularly

  Compassion pocket for the needy homeless and baggers

 Dance with u freely in lovely music

 Express delivery of whatever u need from central London or anywhere

 Flowers to brighten your day

 Gentle and relaxing massage

Have maxjai run some boring errands or do some tedious chores or housework (like 洗廁所、掃地、吸塵、拖地)for u

Instagram post model / photographer

 Just play, relax, eat, sleep, repeat

✝️️  Kindness to share with others in this sometimes miserable world

 Let’s go horseback riding!

Mindfulness meditation guided by max

New things u want us to learn tgt

Open attitude to what had happened, is happening or will happen

Poem 精選,我為你讀首喜歡的詩

️  Quest to do any thing  任性 mode’s u requested

 Record (Time management and Expenditure) of last month

️ Shopping bags “coolie”

Tare-tare hunting companion 一起去試某度最靚最美味的他他

Unconditional support of your educational and career pursuit

Vulnerability is ok and u can be certain u will be 100% fully supported by each other

Wild card 白版: just make a wish, whatever u wish, I will do my best to achieve it

X-ray of a selected reading of yours

‍ YouTube廚神勉勉強強開開心心煮一餐!

去Zoo散步 才是正經事

已解鎖功能:

☂️ Umbrellaman  (原廠)

️ Hairdryer 吹頭service (培訓成功,學埋新的抓住頭髮快乾地吹的手法,練習中)

Bed-time stories (️

⏰ Wakeup call service  (送)

Hug ji  (️

A 乾淨私人專屬扶手 on public transport’s (️

Wait for u patiently,等幾耐都好,見到你嘅moment都會咁開心  (自動解鎖 Super)

IFS cards 玩玩卡牌同你內心唔同角色傾偈 (️)

Apple Juice DIY   (️ 過咗個season,甘叔叔有棵蘋果樹一季harvest 500個蘋果,到時再做)

Soft hands to hold (️☺️

煲劇binge binge binge tgt and discuss  (️ couple therapy & gym tgt)

✍ Letters handwritten in lovely childish fonts  (️)

Touching for sense of security  ( 由透明的部份 (暫名)解開咗)

K(r)issssses that’re never enough (unlocked under Blue Moon)

️ 與waiter表逹食物的問題 (We got free food )

 Piano music by request (要練下琴先)

 A 3 day iteniary of a city u think of (去Seaford也玩得愉快吧,功能自動解鎖 ^o^)  Car jai which can pick u up and drive to wherever u want(我們兩個也可以駕車了)

 Exploring each interesting街角 (local and foreign land) 隨心散步 and discover 新奇事物 around the area

 Future that we gonna talk and build tgt

‍‍  Give energy to u and the ppl who u care dearly

Soft man shall not 大聲對你  (️)

X‘mas market 尋寶  (️)
☕  Comforting hot Chocolate with swirl of Cream (home-made hot choco ^U^)
Quick and brief meet-up during your busy day   (散下步,搭程車都開心)
Trip jai to a country u want to visit (Prague was beautiful, we may go somewhere warm for trip followed!)

Relaxation with singing bowl/meditation/massages ( 體驗另一面的Max~ )

 Fingers Play

 Animal & nature photo-shoot day
‍❤️‍  Introduce me to ur private circle

 Quietly get into an interesting corner  (壞咗嘅車都好有探險嘅感覺)

Box of 精心挑選 Snacks (健康的Kris bb對零食盒冇咩興趣)

2024 Resolution

新年之始 Began with Ali Abdaal 的 online workshop也用了你設計的模組 ,訂下了一些自己對 2024年的願景

Looking Forward
Based on the experiences in 2023, what would I like to do differently in 2024? Are there new areas I’d like to explore or changes I want to make:

1. More habits, do better housework and maintaining tidiness and cleanliness

2. Get more local knowledge towards law and social systems, getting ready for new social work profession

3. Less blockage and be more open towards my parents and friends. And my partner!

Goals of this year:

1 Year

  • Learn to invest and financially manage myself
  • Effortless/Disciplined Housework with good habits and skills
  • Become a social worker again!

Why & How?

  • Learn to invest and financially manage myself
    • Core to having my home in 3-5 years
    • Less money earned More need to be generate through investment
  • Effortless/Disciplined Housework with good habits and skills
    • Bring pleasantness to people in the household
    • Core to being a good son and future good husband
    • Clear space bring clear mind and productivity
    • I love a clean home
  • Become a social worker again in the new country!
    • My identity
    • Core to income and building a career enabling the 10 year vision of being that caring manager

Long-term goals

3 Year

  • A loving husband
  • Go to Iceland finally
  • Learned something about how to take photographs

5 Year

  • Have our home
  • Be a gentle and funny man who knows how to speak and care and dress
  • Write better and clearly

10 Year

  • Work: Lead and managed people with care and compassion
  • Life: 60 Michelin Stars, good books and good movies in 10 years
  • Talk with my kid endlessly, and see how the kid cares and shares

小野,5個月快樂,呢段時間我們一齊經歷,一路成長,

I know we must have a fruitful and joyous year ahead~